When people let go
of their blame, resentments, and grudges, we
see kinder, more peaceful families, friendlier communities, and more
creative, productive businesses and organization. When these upsets are not dealt
with they fester, leading to poor relationships and angry confrontations
at best; vengeance and violence, at worst. Everyone
involved is affected badly, sometimes for years.
This need not be.
With increasing terrorism around the world and growing violence in our
cities and schools, it is vital that we use powerful
tools to help defuse bitterness, hostility, and desire for retaliation.
There is a most valuable and helpful tool to help relieve the pain of
unforgiven situations, betrayal, guilt and grudges. You wil find, however,
that this most effective tool, forgiveness, is barely being used in conflict
negotiations, psychology, mediation, and even, marriage & family therapy.
The
Latest Research
Modern research
in medicine, sociology, and psychology, plus, the history of spiritual
traditions has shown quite clearly that forgiving transforms people, not
only spiritually but also, emotionally and, even, physically.
Fascinating
research has emerged in the past ten years that documents the healing
power of forgiveness. "In careful scientific studies, forgiveness training has been shown to:
reduce
depression
increase
hopefulness
decrease
anger
improve
spiritual connection
increase
emotional self-confidence
help
heal relationships
Learning to forgive is good for both your mental and physical well-being
and your relationships."
- Dr. Fredric Luskin, in his best selling book, Forgive for Good.
A Miracle or a Curse
If
this were a new medicine, it would be claimed as miraculous. It is!
But it isn't as easy as a pill because it goes against the primitive
reactions of the brain/mind and the very grain of our culture. Forgiveness has
been maligned, misdefined, misunderstood, mislabeled and misapplied
for centuries. Thus, its power to bring peace and joy back into people's
lives has been terribly neglected. And so, we have atrocities occurring
everyday around the world in the name of resentment and hate. This need
not be.
The
Best-kept Secret
Dr.
Carl Thoresen, a professor of psychology and psychiatry at Stanford
University and original lead researcher for the Stanford Forgiveness
Project said: "It's one of the best-kept secrets". He also states, "We
have come across very few people who understand what forgiveness is
and how it works." - San Jose Mercury News 1999.
This
is changing. With the insight into the mind that we have gained in the
past 25 years, we can now get past the parts of the brain which prevent
forgiveness. Researchers, doctors, psychologists, therapists, and educators
all over the world have documented the power of forgiving and how to
do it effectively. Numerous methods are now available to assist people
to forgive.
The Timing of Forgiveness
No
one can force another to forgive. People have their own timing in forgiving.
In addition, there are phases of forgiveness. We have the tools and
convincing arguments for a person to forgive, when he or she is ready
to regain joy, love and peace in his or her life. Peace will occur by
people changing their life through forgiving others, having their own
offenses forgiven, and by passing on, in word and in deed, what they
have learned.
The
Forgiveness Foundation exists to forward this process.
Our Calling
Our
vision is to increase peace and kindness in the world by helping people
forgive; then, assisting them help to friends, neighbors and members of
their community and workplace to learn to forgive by
providing workshops, seminars, books, inspiration, promotion
material, and courses on "How to Forgive".
The
Obstacles to Peace
It
is vital that we use the powerful tool of forgiveness today to assist
defusing resentments, hate, and the desire for vengeance - the obstacles
to peace. These obstacles can be undone right now in our own lives,
communities, and workplaces. We have the tools to help relieve the pain
of unforgiveness, betrayal, guilt and resentment.
You
Are a Vehicle for Change
With
your help, The Forgiveness Foundation can be instrumental in disseminating
this information around the world, not only as a vehicle for hope, but
also for one of change. Our hope is that all people, will finally join together in
an effort to increase peace, and kindness throughout the world.
Together
we can help people to let go of their hate, resentments, or grudges,
as well as their desires for vengeance. Please join us and support this
work.
Your Input
Commit
to forgiving and support others to let go of resentments, hatreds
and cries for vengeance. Forgiveness can make the difference between
war and peace in our own life and in the world. Please stand with us to
change harmful attitudes in the world.
Learn
effective ways of forgiving. Set up events to share it with others.
If you know of someone whom you think may be interested in this project,
please forward the link to this page to them. In addition, at this time
please consider making
a financial contribution to this work.
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Our
Vision
Building peaceful and friendly families, communities, and businesses
by helping people let go of their blame, resentments, grudges, and
vengeance.
Our
Mission
Establishing forgiveness as a foundation in people's thinking; thus, ensuring
forgiveness is used in difficult and every day situations.
Our
Goals
To
educate on the value and power of forgiveness.
To
inspire individuals & families to integrate forgiveness into their
attitudes and daily life habits.
To
train individuals & organizations on how to forgive difficult and
challenging situations.
Who
We Are
The Forgiveness Foundation is a 501c3 non-profit organization dedicated
to the public benefit and to support all aspects of forgiveness in families,
organizations, communities, businesses, and agencies.
We
apply and teach methods from all professional fields including psychology,
science, medicine, religion, business and sociology.
We
are eligible to receive tax-deductible donations, endowments and grants
to further advance forgiveness work worldwide.
We
conduct research projects, sponsor training workshops & seminars, and
disseminate information on forgiveness.
Note: We are not a part of any religious organization nor do our members
hold to any one religion or creed. We support all peoples' rights to
practice the religion of their choice.